I gotta tell u, I'm not very fond of JE rules. But what u gonna do! I do agree with u, if people (specially fanatic girls) found out they have gf their popularity would shoot down. But it seems to me a little weird... let them have girlfriends.. or boyfriends, whatever they like. But let them be! I personally would be... first a little shock and a little hurt (that's the little /Aiba fan/ immatured girl talking) but then. Kudos for them if they find a gf and falling in love right?!
The thing I don't like about JE is the fact that it feels like they are just products for sale.. and they are, but they are humans also. But thats the life they chose. And they are happy! And that's what life is about, being happy! ^_^
Sorry for all the rant.. whenever i talk about JE and their politics I get a little defensive.